It's strange how people try to relate situations or other people to things they are comfortable with. For eg, some one just gives a generalized statement, all Indian dogs are aggressive. Just because one bit them years ago. Or my favorite, you girls/ men are all the same.
Agreed that our situations shape who we are but we shouldn't be force fitting an image just because it makes us comfortable. Often times, that makes us alienate someone we love. Can I go back and erase words? Or should I just forgive and move on?